Sinful Sunday: Cherries

This week we wanted to keep it simple.

I love this scarf. I love being tied. Simple. 

See who else is being sinful this Sunday...

September Deals and Bargains!

This is something I'm planning to make a more regular feature; a round up of what's out there in terms of discounts, special offers and deals with some fantastic retaillers.

As the darker evenings draw in, what better time to snap up a few sexy deals to warm up the fun way? So here we have it, my summary of some of the hottest offers right now... 

Simply Pleasure are offering two current discount codes this month:

15% off all orders of £30 or more [WARMER15OFF]

 &

20% off all orders of £55 or more [WARMER20OFF]

All orders over £10 qualify for free delivery as always and they have some truly fantastic deals available such as the Rocks Off RO80mm bullet at just £3.45 - a staggering 70% off what I consider to be the best bullet on the market hands down! (Actually the entire Rocks Off Better Than Half Price Sale (including big hitters like the Rock Chick and Rude Boy) is amazing on price!)

 

Sex Toys UK are offering a deal tailored especially for 50 Shade fans; the Fifty Shades of Play bundle. Containing a pair of love balls, a blindfold, bondage tape and a paddle to experience some real-life kink. The toys normally retail at £56.99 total, but Sex Toys UK are currently offering the lot for just £25!

 

Lovehoney have LOTS going on right now...

Don't forget all Bondage Boutique items come with their very own loyalty scheme!

The sexy Seven 'til Midnight range is currently 2 for £30. The range includes gorgeous plus size pieces, of which I own a few!

 

 

All the books in the Fifty Shades trilogy come with freebies!  

*Note the free item on book 1 has been switched to a beginners vibrating finger ring.

Graduated from Fifty Shades? Get a Lovehoney 10 speed Dream Bullet free with In Too Deep by Portia Da Costa - worth £9.99!

I hope you all get some fabulous, sexy bargains as we head into autumn!

NK x

 

Sinful Sunday: Never Naked

I'm never truly naked with my collar.

Master collared me early this year and I've worn this since. To be without it would feel incredibly wrong to me. It's discrete enough to wear day to day without suspicion or questions. 

In times of stress, worry or sadness, my collar is my link to him, to feel him near me even when we are physically apart. 

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Memories linger.

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My mind keeps being drawn back to a not-so-distant memory.
A memory of a bed, and those within it.
The memory of how a kiss can echo throughout a person.
The way your moans channeled into my mouth.
How the early dawn light illuminated your body. 
I remember the feel of you.
I remember the taste.
The intake of breath at just - that - moment as he filled you so.
I remember how your breath felt on my cunt.
I remember finally giving in, abandoning my nerves and kissing you.
Passionately.

And I want it again.

I want you again.

NK x

BDSM is Domestic Violence? Really?

I read today that a charity based not far from me is planning a "50 Shades bonfire" on the 5th November, and is calling for women to hand over their copies to be burned.

Reading the article, Clare Phillipson, who is the Director of Wearside Women in Need is quoted as saying: "I do not think I can put into words how vile I think this book is and how dangerous I think the idea is that you get a sophisticated but naive, young women and a much richer, abusive older man who beats her up and does some dreadful things to her sexually."

She goes on to label consentual BDSM as "domestic violence". 

I was appalled to hear the life I lead judged so harshly. I felt compelled to try to advise her of the reality of consentual kink and the relationships within it via the contact us link on the charity's site.

In my email I said:

Dear Ms Phillipson

I am writing to you to alert you to the offense caused by your statements to BBC news as published on their website here: http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-england-tyne-19354560.

I am a lifestyle submissive woman in a D/s relationship. This is a relationship I entered consentually, and any and all activities carried out between my partner and I are fully consentual.

I greatly enjoy the pleasure I receive through these consentual activities.

To read these judgemental comments about a lifestyle many men and women in the North East are involved in was deeply offensive and disheartening. Most relationships in the kink scene are fully consentual and non abusive, but as with vanilla relationships, occasionally some do go bad. These women should feel they would be able to turn to WWIN, however I can say with some conviction I doubt many would after seeing the standpoint your organisation has taken against the lifestyle we lead.

I hope you will seek to enlighten yourself further to the healthy, fulfilling lifestyles others lead, and endeavour to make yourself more tollerant.

Regards
[name]

I do hope she will reconsider her standpoint, although my gut instinct says this seems unlikely. Should I receive a reply, I will post it here.

How do you feel seeing her take on the kinky lifestyle? Am I the only one who is shocked and disappointed? It really seems like kinky people, especially women, have less and less services we can use and be open about who we are and what we do. 

NK x